When did politics become reprehensible? When did it become a determining factor for acceptance? It only took one individual to alter the way in which we dealt with politics, and people’s minds quickly moved to conspiracies rather than politics altogether. Politics has historically been plagued by unethical behavior. Regardless of whatever side you support, the government always has ulterior motives. The concept of the language used by the government (politics) is meant to be one that is instructive, educational, and transparent. Yet, POOF, GONE in a flash!
It’s a new era. When I was younger, politics at the dinner table took a different tone. It wasn’t anything that was brought up in casual conversation. There was an unspoken agreement to accept each other’s differences. You didn’t go around bragging about who you voted for since it was a private matter and you had the right to keep it that way. Because asking about your political affiliation would be considered an invasion of privacy, no one asked you who you voted for.
The only thing that mattered was your vote. No one cared which side you voted for, and people respected that. Unfortunately, this is no longer honored in 2023. Suddenly, everyone has a lot to say about their political preferences and allegiances. It used to be necessary to demonstrate your loyalty in order to receive something in return, but these days, there is no such thing.
For many citizens, 2016 was a nightmare come true. There were many broken hearts and estranged relationships as a result. Frequent disagreements arose at the dinner table, with people expressing their deviant political views without evidence and merely because someone said so. For some, it was so horrifying that American Horror Story devoted an entire season to it. For many, it was a terrifying experience.
When that time came, the polite politics that were played out around the table, at the workplace, and even in some social circles took an unexpected turn. People’s minds seemed to flip to the “I don’t care about respect” position, where they would say whatever, they wanted, regardless of whether or not it was true. And when the untruth is repeated so frequently, it transforms into this idea that is suddenly accepted as fact despite the lack of any supporting evidence.
It’s been seven years since this radical lifestyle shift first began. And it has taken on a life of its own. Polite Politics not only vanished but turned into pure evil. The promotion of hatred was now the norm in politics. Whether a statement is true or false, the instant it is repeated, it becomes part of a chain of events. I know when it’s appropriate to speak up and when to keep my mouth shut. Of course, you need to do it the proper way, so be forthright and respectful.
So how can one discuss politics without offending others?
- Consider first the nature of your relationship with this person. This will assist you in determining your approach to the subject.
- Second, ensure that your emotions are under control. If your initial response is passionate and aggressive, your audience’s concentration may be broken. You should remain calm, listen, and give them an opportunity to express themselves.
- Thirdly, use language that is tranquil, cordial, and respectful. Don’t use phrases like “that’s dumb,” “That sounds crazy,” or “Are you out of your mind?” Attacking their line of thinking straight away will put an end to the conversation. The goal is to keep the discussion going, even if you disagree with what they are saying. F
- Finally, do not be afraid to confront them with evidence. When making an argument, be sure to make use of proof and evidence; people learn a lot faster when they can see how things go together. Give them the opportunity to see what it is that you see.
No one is immune to the destructive power of bigotry in today’s world; it doesn’t matter what race, religion, gender, or political affiliation you identify with. So many individuals have succumbed to hatred, violence, and deceit. It was a silent understanding that political and religious discussions could become passionate and hostile, but never violent, never to the point where you feared for your life, which prevented many establishments from permitting such discussions.
I am still somewhat traditional. I have companions with whom I disagree politically, but I respect their position. Do I approve, Hell No! But because I respect them, I do not become angry or hostile; I simply listen and let them know I disagree. I haven’t lost any friends or family members as a result of it, but they are aware that they shouldn’t approach me to talk about certain beliefs because I can get pretty impassioned about them, such as gun control or reproductive rights.
In the days when I was growing up, there was no such thing as social media, and there was no such thing as a glut of information. You learned from the television, the newspaper, and your community. Now that everybody has an opinion, things can quickly get out of hand. However, this is only one person’s opinion. We can’t just accept everyone’s thoughts and turn them into facts because where is the evidence?
Polite politics is the view that one’s personal opinions on matters of governance, voting, and national events should be kept out of the public eye. When is it appropriate to communicate these ideas and thoughts? If you feel your rights or values are being threatened, you have every right to speak out and protest. It is not a sign of weakness to speak up against bullies and demand to be heard. Yes, it is necessary to confront evil head-on despite our differences. HOWEVER, it is under no circumstances acceptable to resort to violence or hatred in order to accomplish such goals.